I have been seeing SO MANY posts lately to the extent of "I WON'T SAY 'HAPPY HOLIDAYS' IT'S CHRISTMAS! KEEP CHRIST IN CHRISTmas" etc etc etc...
I'm going to keep this pretty damn short.
1. Amazingly enough, not ONLY Christians celebrate big holidays in December.. Imagine that? However, I highly doubt they would be entirely thrilled if they were wished Happy Kwanzaa or Hanuka by people who like them were unwilling to be respectful and/or accepting of other people's views who are different than theirs...
2. Let's be frank here, there is no proof or even slight pointer toward the possibility that Jesus was even born in winter... Let alone December... Certainly NOT December 25th. Nothing in the bible and no historical proof. However, do you know what is documented as a part of history? The taking over of Christianity as the major religion throughout Europe. I know we all cut to flashes of witch burnings, drownings, beheadings, and hangings (among other things). However, before all that the church was more sneaky and underhanded and a little less violent. They took over the pagan temples, and centered their holidays on or around pagan holidays in hopes of converting the pagans who came to those temples on those days to worship... It wasn't until they realized that while they were snaring quite a few there but that many were holding true to their faith that they started slaughtering the remainders (and quite a few of their converts who simply weren't popular among their neighbors for that matter). It strikes me as funny that some Christians now are making a huge deal out of others celebrating other faiths near Christmas... When the choice for putting it in that time frame in the first place was in hopes of completely taking down another faith... "PUT CHRIST back in CHRISTmas?"
How about everyone just stick with the happy holidays? Take this time to enjoy your family, friends, and count your blessings... Celebrate your faith by all means... but consider that... THERE ARE OTHER FAITHS, WHO HAVE OTHER BELIEFS, AND OTHER HOLIDAYS IN DECEMBER! AND AMAZINGLY ENOUGH IT WASN'T STARTED AS A MEANS OF TAKING DOWN AN ENTIRELY DIFFERENT RELIGION!
I am not anti-christianity... What I am is anti-ignorance, anti-pettiness, anti-hatefulness, and most of all anti-hypocrisy.
Wednesday, December 14, 2011
Monday, December 5, 2011
Men/Women LIARS AND CHEATERS AND ASSHOLES! OH MY!
I can't count how many times a chick friend has come to me and proclaimed, "I'M DONE WITH MEN! FROM NOW ON I'M A LESBIAN!"
Let me just say.... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
I am bisexual and have had multiple relationships with both men and women. Let me tell ya, when you give up men for women, you ARE NOT giving up bullshit. You are just trading in for a different brand of it.
I have found in my experience that men are not so great at covering their tracks. If they are going to fuck you over in some way you usually see it coming about a mile away. Most women however, either don't want to believe it and turn a blind eye OR somehow delude themselves into thinking they can change him.
Women on the other hand are USUALLY much better at lying, manipulating situations, and playing any given part for the target audience. When a woman fucks you over it is much like setting up an intricate design of dominoes. One piece at a time, over weeks, months, sometimes YEARS. You don't even see it coming till all of them come crashing down in a display impossible to ignore... Then months after you are still recalling all the little clues that meant NOTHING at the time.
Women tend to look more appealing to heartbroken females because men are so completely demonized in general. A lot of women get out of these relationships and instead of taking their part of the blame for why things went wrong it is a bunch of "He did... He didn't... He wouldn't... He would... I couldn't TAKE it ANYMORE". Where as men USUALLY take a much more "I don't want to talk about that bitch" approach.
I'm not saying that there aren't liars, cheaters, and assholes in the male community. I KNOW from experience that is not the case. I'm just tired of people buying into the hype that they are somehow worse or more prone to it than women. Like I said, there are some dickheads out there. Many of them were always that way and WILL ALWAYS be that way. They hurt people with no conscience whatsoever. However, some of them were trained to be that way.
"Who trains them?" You may be asking yourself at this point... Well, I'll give you a hint. They aren't taken to a training facility for douche bags at area 51 to be programed into the loathsome little cockroaches they are today.
Women. Yup. Women train some of these men in the ways of douche baggery. Let me tell you a story about a good friend of mine. For privacy's sake we shall call him "Dude". In high school dude was the sweetest, most kind, caring, respectful, hopeless romantic any girl could dream of. However, the girls were NOT dreaming of him then. He tirelessly pursued one girl after another, showering her with affection, compliments, and gifts... and was cheated on, taken advantage of, left for someone else, shunned, beaten by one girl, and ended up "just a friend" to several others... That shoulder to cry on... While all of them... ALL OF THEM... ran off to be with some fuckhead who treated them like shit....
This went on for years until Dude had a revelation. Girl's didn't want the sweet, loyal, romantic guy as they claimed. They wanted the drama that came from chasing after the dickheads who treated them like mobile sperm banks... So he started to do just that. Not only did he start getting LAID, he stopped getting HURT!
That is just one in a sea of a million of identical stories of how one great guy disappeared and a douche took his place.
And while we are talking a bit about romance... A lot of women complain an awful lot that their man doesn't romance them enough (if at all). I gotta tell you, I don't hear too many stories about women lighting some candles and spreading rose pettals over the bed for her man, drawing him a hot bubble bath for when he gets home, planning romantic little surprises, giving full body aroma therapy massages etc etc etc for their man these days... But I hear a lot of bitching because their man doesn't do it for them. Bit hypocritical isn't it? Ladies, you don't want your man to buy into that old way of thinking that a woman's place is cleaning in the kitchen, fucking in the bedroom, or popping out babies in the delivery room. So why should you get to buy into the old way of thinking that it is the man's job to instigate all of the romance in the relationship? Sometimes men like to be pampered too. How much do you think you would like to play princess charming if your prince didn't sometimes return the favor?
One more thing I want to touch on before I start to wind down on this tangent is abuse. I am sick and tired of people generalizing the role of the abuser to be the man's. There are plenty of women who beat their man PRIMARILY because they know they won't hit them back because they are a woman. This is no less disgusting than when a man beats a woman because he knows she is not physically strong enough to defend herself. They are also just as bad, just as often as men at mental and emotional abuse. Yelling, name calling, belittling, and controlling... Society doesn't often bat a lash at a female guilty of spousal abuse... It's wrong. Plain and simple. I firmly believe that if a woman hits a man like a man she should expect to be hit back like a man. If she doesn't want to get hit she should keep her fucking hands to herself.
Look, I'm not hating on women. The point of this blog was not to say that women are worse than men... but that they are JUST AS BAD as men... JUST AS OFTEN as men. There are lots of women who are legitimate victims of bad relationships... but there are just as many men!
At the end of the day I say treat them the way they behave. If they act like a dick/bitch. Treat em like one. Tell them to shut their holes and get the fuck out of your face. If they act like a froggy little scrapper. Treat em like one. Knock em the fuck out then kick them the fuck out. If they act like a ho, treat em like a ho. Hit it and quit it. You already hit it, it's time to quit it. Finally, if they act like your friend, your companion, your lover, your king/queen... TREAT THEM LIKE IT! Hold on to them, love them, shower them with all the affection and sweetness you have in you. Make sure to make them feel just as special as they make you feel every day... Don't take them for granted... Cause I think we ALL know JUST how RARE that is! DON'T FUCK IT UP!
*gets down from her soap box*
Let me just say.... HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
I am bisexual and have had multiple relationships with both men and women. Let me tell ya, when you give up men for women, you ARE NOT giving up bullshit. You are just trading in for a different brand of it.
I have found in my experience that men are not so great at covering their tracks. If they are going to fuck you over in some way you usually see it coming about a mile away. Most women however, either don't want to believe it and turn a blind eye OR somehow delude themselves into thinking they can change him.
Women on the other hand are USUALLY much better at lying, manipulating situations, and playing any given part for the target audience. When a woman fucks you over it is much like setting up an intricate design of dominoes. One piece at a time, over weeks, months, sometimes YEARS. You don't even see it coming till all of them come crashing down in a display impossible to ignore... Then months after you are still recalling all the little clues that meant NOTHING at the time.
Women tend to look more appealing to heartbroken females because men are so completely demonized in general. A lot of women get out of these relationships and instead of taking their part of the blame for why things went wrong it is a bunch of "He did... He didn't... He wouldn't... He would... I couldn't TAKE it ANYMORE". Where as men USUALLY take a much more "I don't want to talk about that bitch" approach.
I'm not saying that there aren't liars, cheaters, and assholes in the male community. I KNOW from experience that is not the case. I'm just tired of people buying into the hype that they are somehow worse or more prone to it than women. Like I said, there are some dickheads out there. Many of them were always that way and WILL ALWAYS be that way. They hurt people with no conscience whatsoever. However, some of them were trained to be that way.
"Who trains them?" You may be asking yourself at this point... Well, I'll give you a hint. They aren't taken to a training facility for douche bags at area 51 to be programed into the loathsome little cockroaches they are today.
Women. Yup. Women train some of these men in the ways of douche baggery. Let me tell you a story about a good friend of mine. For privacy's sake we shall call him "Dude". In high school dude was the sweetest, most kind, caring, respectful, hopeless romantic any girl could dream of. However, the girls were NOT dreaming of him then. He tirelessly pursued one girl after another, showering her with affection, compliments, and gifts... and was cheated on, taken advantage of, left for someone else, shunned, beaten by one girl, and ended up "just a friend" to several others... That shoulder to cry on... While all of them... ALL OF THEM... ran off to be with some fuckhead who treated them like shit....
This went on for years until Dude had a revelation. Girl's didn't want the sweet, loyal, romantic guy as they claimed. They wanted the drama that came from chasing after the dickheads who treated them like mobile sperm banks... So he started to do just that. Not only did he start getting LAID, he stopped getting HURT!
That is just one in a sea of a million of identical stories of how one great guy disappeared and a douche took his place.
And while we are talking a bit about romance... A lot of women complain an awful lot that their man doesn't romance them enough (if at all). I gotta tell you, I don't hear too many stories about women lighting some candles and spreading rose pettals over the bed for her man, drawing him a hot bubble bath for when he gets home, planning romantic little surprises, giving full body aroma therapy massages etc etc etc for their man these days... But I hear a lot of bitching because their man doesn't do it for them. Bit hypocritical isn't it? Ladies, you don't want your man to buy into that old way of thinking that a woman's place is cleaning in the kitchen, fucking in the bedroom, or popping out babies in the delivery room. So why should you get to buy into the old way of thinking that it is the man's job to instigate all of the romance in the relationship? Sometimes men like to be pampered too. How much do you think you would like to play princess charming if your prince didn't sometimes return the favor?
One more thing I want to touch on before I start to wind down on this tangent is abuse. I am sick and tired of people generalizing the role of the abuser to be the man's. There are plenty of women who beat their man PRIMARILY because they know they won't hit them back because they are a woman. This is no less disgusting than when a man beats a woman because he knows she is not physically strong enough to defend herself. They are also just as bad, just as often as men at mental and emotional abuse. Yelling, name calling, belittling, and controlling... Society doesn't often bat a lash at a female guilty of spousal abuse... It's wrong. Plain and simple. I firmly believe that if a woman hits a man like a man she should expect to be hit back like a man. If she doesn't want to get hit she should keep her fucking hands to herself.
Look, I'm not hating on women. The point of this blog was not to say that women are worse than men... but that they are JUST AS BAD as men... JUST AS OFTEN as men. There are lots of women who are legitimate victims of bad relationships... but there are just as many men!
At the end of the day I say treat them the way they behave. If they act like a dick/bitch. Treat em like one. Tell them to shut their holes and get the fuck out of your face. If they act like a froggy little scrapper. Treat em like one. Knock em the fuck out then kick them the fuck out. If they act like a ho, treat em like a ho. Hit it and quit it. You already hit it, it's time to quit it. Finally, if they act like your friend, your companion, your lover, your king/queen... TREAT THEM LIKE IT! Hold on to them, love them, shower them with all the affection and sweetness you have in you. Make sure to make them feel just as special as they make you feel every day... Don't take them for granted... Cause I think we ALL know JUST how RARE that is! DON'T FUCK IT UP!
*gets down from her soap box*
Starting the Blog
Well, I always said I wasn't going to do this, but a few days ago I thought to myself. "Self, everyone else seems to be throwing out their opinions into the wide open world of the interwebz... Might as well add mine... And the added bonus of mine is that unlike 90% of the shit I see there, my views are hardly ever not thought out, they actually have some kind of point, and they NEVER, and I do mean NEVER hint at there being any kind of justification for there being the mind numbingly fucktarded "phenomena" we have come to know as *gags* twilight." So here I am.
My main goal here is putting my ideas out in the world about whatever random topic happens to pop into my head at the time I feel like taking the time to type them out :P And like most any other opinion in the world, most won't people won't hear/read it, and out of the ones who do, some will like it, some won't, and some will actually have the mental capacity to take it for what it is... An opinion.
Fair warning. A lot of what I have to say tends to rub some people the wrong way. I tell things how I see them and I rarely hold back to save people's feelings. I am very passionate about some topics and so tend to get a bit out of control with the way I talk about them. I am very open about sex and that is something I will most likely discuss at some point, actually... Let's be honest... I will most likely talk about it many times :P. I have a bit of a dark sense of humor. And finally... I have a mother fucking damn dirty ass mouth... Deal with it. If you are over the age of 18 (and I have set this to be read by such people) odds are you have heard/read such language before and haven't suffered a brain hemorrhage because of it... So suck it up... Or suck my slash. Don't give a fuck which.
I am open to comments and discussion... As a matter of fact I WELCOME IT! Even if we do not agree. I love talking to people (Let me rephrase that) I love talking to INTELLIGENT people who can bring different ideas to the table. However, (acknowledge the re phrasal above) I will address people with opposing views with just as much respect as they show with their comments. Come like an adult and actually say something meaningful about the topic, or expect to be insulted right back.
That being said. Enjoy :)
My main goal here is putting my ideas out in the world about whatever random topic happens to pop into my head at the time I feel like taking the time to type them out :P And like most any other opinion in the world, most won't people won't hear/read it, and out of the ones who do, some will like it, some won't, and some will actually have the mental capacity to take it for what it is... An opinion.
Fair warning. A lot of what I have to say tends to rub some people the wrong way. I tell things how I see them and I rarely hold back to save people's feelings. I am very passionate about some topics and so tend to get a bit out of control with the way I talk about them. I am very open about sex and that is something I will most likely discuss at some point, actually... Let's be honest... I will most likely talk about it many times :P. I have a bit of a dark sense of humor. And finally... I have a mother fucking damn dirty ass mouth... Deal with it. If you are over the age of 18 (and I have set this to be read by such people) odds are you have heard/read such language before and haven't suffered a brain hemorrhage because of it... So suck it up... Or suck my slash. Don't give a fuck which.
I am open to comments and discussion... As a matter of fact I WELCOME IT! Even if we do not agree. I love talking to people (Let me rephrase that) I love talking to INTELLIGENT people who can bring different ideas to the table. However, (acknowledge the re phrasal above) I will address people with opposing views with just as much respect as they show with their comments. Come like an adult and actually say something meaningful about the topic, or expect to be insulted right back.
That being said. Enjoy :)
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